Obituary of Arlene A. Miles

Arlene Agnes Miles, a cherished mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on October 17, 2024, in her beloved hometown of Burnham, Maine. Born on December 23, 1933, Arlene led a life filled with love, dedication, and a relentless passion for her family and community. She lived for nearly 91 years, leaving behind a legacy of kindness and strength.

Arlene was the daughter of Sherman A. Cookson Sr and Rena L. (Kenney) Cookson, who instilled in her the values of hard work and the importance of family. She was a proud graduate of MCI, finishing her studies in 1952. Shortly after, she married her devoted husband, Ralph A. Miles Jr, with whom she shared a loving partnership until his passing in 1978. Together, they raised two wonderful sons, David and Craig, ho have been a source of immense pride for Arlene throughout her life.

Her professional journey was as commendable as her personal life. Arlene dedicated over 39 years of her career to Ethan Allen in Burnham, where she held various positions, including that of payroll clerk. Her commitment to public service was evident during her 20+ years at the Unity Town Office as a Deputy Clerk, where she made significant contributions to her local community. A remarkable achievement was her role as the elected Town Treasurer of Burnham for an astonishing 67 years, a testament to her unwavering dedication and trust within the community. Arlene was twice nominated for the Ethel Kenney Memorial Award in 2003 and 2009. She also worked seasonally at all the Maine fairs for 2o+ years, selling pari-mutuel tickets. Her involvement in the Eastern Stars in Clinton, Maine, further demonstrated her commitment to serving her community and connecting with others.

Arlene was a woman of many interests and hobbies. She loved starting her day with the crossword puzzle, a true testament to her sharp intellect. She was also a passionate candlepin bowler, competing on a women's team for Ethan Allen. Her love for sports, particularly the Boston Red Sox and the Boston Celtics, brought her joy and camaraderie with friends and family alike. Arlene's strong sense of family was her guiding light; her children were the cornerstone of her existence.

Arlene is preceded in death by her loving husband, Ralph A. Miles, Jr., and her siblings: Joan Sidelinger, Alyson Thomas, Janase Rich, Maynard Cookson, Sherman Cookson Jr., Ronald Cookson, and Melvin Cookson. She is survived by her two sons, David and Craig; her granddaughter Tori; her grandson David Jr.; six great-grandchildren; and a multitude of nieces and nephews, all of whom will carry her memory in their hearts.

As we remember Arlene, let us celebrate her life-a life dedicated to family, community, and love. Friends and family are invited to gather in remembrance of Arlene, sharing stories and celebrating the profound impact she had on everyone who knew her. Her legacy will live on in the hearts of all she touched.

Rest in peace, dear Arlene. Your love and spirit will forever shine brightly in our lives.